mel - i highlight my hair--nowadays i add a couple of different reds. there's still natural red, but just not as much. don't have the guts yet to do perm dye. it will eventually come to that.
thanks mizscarlett! lots of good info here.
p.s. the first time i ever really knew 'the doors' was the time i spent as my friend's house when i was 11. her sister (5 years older than us) would have that famous poster of jim on her wall that you could see from the door--mesmerizing. she was always playing them. sadly, she passed at 23, so i hope she gets to hang with him once in a while now...and he sings/reads poetry to her.
this is really sad story.good peoples always die young.she`ll be in good place now,i`m sure she met Jim there.